Most people don't control their mind, they don't instruct their subconscious mind because they don't control their thoughts. Most people are not even aware of the thoughts they have everyday, and they don't choose their beliefs. Instead their minds are constantly sending the wrong messages or wrong instructions to their subconscious mind. And that's how they end up creating the life that they don't want. Just about everyone wants to be successful and happy - but few have thoughts and beliefs that reflect success and happiness. Few people ever choose their thoughts - accepting whatever thoughts it conjures up and then they begin to believe these thoughts - thus they don't choose their beliefs - they merely accept what their minds and what other people tell them. I've spoken to people who try to do everything they can to be successful and happy - but when I analyze their thoughts I find that what they think is the exact opposite of what they want to achieve. Sure they want to be successful - but they really don't have any thoughts or beliefs that suggest they can be successful. Whatever you want to achieve you can - if you have a belief system that corresponds to your goals. If you want to make more money you have to have a belief system that says you believe you can make more money. If you want to meet the right person you have to believe that you can meet the right person. If you want to succeed at something - you have to believe that you can succeed at it. So how do you create beliefs that correspond with what you want to accomplish? First think about what you want to achieve. Then ask yourself if you really believe that you can accomplish that particular goal. If you don't believe you can - there's work to do and you're going to have to change your belief system to reflect what you want to achieve. To change your belief system you have to analyze your thoughts - list all the thoughts and beliefs that you have about achieving that goal. For example: if you want to make more money - list why you don't think you can make more money. Now change those thoughts to correspond with what you want. You have to then work with these thoughts everyday. If you want to achieve success and happiness then you have to create thoughts and beliefs that will allow you to achieve those goals. Begin changing your thoughts. Begin creating beliefs that work for you. Eliminate the negative thoughts and beliefs. Start creating the life you want today.
- Karim Hajee